How to talk to a Transgender Person

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How to talk to a Transgender Person


How do I talk to a transgender person?  or Trans Persons

Learn to properly communication with transgender persons from my infographic


How do I communicate with a Transgender Person?  Pushing politically correct to the side, by Robbi Racks.  A infographic that is easy to follow and understand, but as a transgender person, the information you can learn here is very dear to our hearts and person growth.  Speak from the heart. hear from the heart and we’ll all be fine.


How to talk to a Transgender Person

Pushing Politically Correct  to the Side

By TS Robbi Racks


Some transgender statistics:

LGBTQ Population – 2017

Because most people do know know or understand the who, what and why’s of transgender, as with many unknowns, we have a fear.  If not acknowledged this fear often shows up as discrimination, anger and pre-judgement against any group of people, in this case societies fears are against us transgender people.

Due to this many persons that are transgender do not talk to anyone about it nor do they feel safe answering the United States Census questions fully, thus, LGBTQ (Transgender) census reports are more then often, estimated.  The numbers I use in this infographic are presented from reports and my own experience as a transgender female.


What do I call a transgender person?

Remember being a kid and asking for permission?  Then that adrenaline rush when you were told yes?  Having that permission gave you a sense of being, and that is the gift we all give each other when we simply ASK, “how would you like me to address you?” or  “what should I call you?”

Please understand when we ask this seemingly simple question AND we then honor the individuals personal choice, we give that person the gift of being themselves.  This is the number one gift you could ever give any transgender person.

How to address a transgender person respectfully:

The use of pronouns when speaking to the person or speaking of the person.

Masculine words: boy he him his

Feminine words: girl she her hers

Gender Neutral words: they them their theirs



What is the most common trans-related verbal communication mistake we hear?

Answer:  pronouns – The use of these words; he, his, him, guy, dude.

Even after a person has accepted and supports my gender transition, as well as some of my closer friends, they will continue to use masculine pronouns when speaking of myself or other trans persons.

Whats the difference between transgender- transsexual-and shemale?

Many transgender people find a whole list of words degrading or to be an insult to them personally.  One such word is”SHEMALE.”

Shemale = bad                                                          Transgender = good

Transsexual = bad                                                                Trans = politically correct

“Shemale” is believed to be used to describe a transgender porno actress, this too can be said about how many feel the about the word transsexual.

More acceptable, currently, with us trans-folks is transgender and even more acceptable is the politically correct term, Trans.

Personally, part of my self discovery was from seeing photos of M2F transsexuals on the internet.  On the internet these beautiful girls were called shemales, and a identity I felt I identified with.   So  after waited a long time to be where I am and now, I’m damn proud to be a Transgender Shemale Transsexual  adult porn Trans actress!

The world will be a much better place when we stop  listening to just the vibrations carried in our breaths that we call words, and we actually hear each others hearts and the intention of what the person is truly trying to say.  You have to understand that in communication, accidents happen.

For me I live by the simple code, I will always treat others as I would like to be treated by them.



What does F2M mean?

Answer: a female to male transgender person.

What does M2F mean?

Answer: a male to female transgender person.

The solution to how to address a transgender person is this, Just Ask Us.   Yes, it’s really that easy.




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If you gained some new transgender communication skill or understanding, please comment or feel free to share this infographic on your own website.   – Robbi Racks TS

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Transgender Pronouns and Communication

Trans terms, pronouns and communication. Buck Angel and other put this video post out on Youtube through Buzzfeed Boldly, it speaks from the heart of so many tran identified people.  I re-posted this video because I believe in what is said here, listen, learn, implement.

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Keywords of 2017

The most searched Keywords of 2017

keyword tools and statistics

Here we go, its 2018 so it’s 2017 statistics time. And here again we see the american people denying our love with porno on a more then regular basis.  I guess it’s just hotter when we keep the ‘forbidden” element to it.With help from the team at the great keyword research tool SEMRush, he below visualization is a list of the 100 most searched for non-branded keywords on Google, in the United States region.The list was determined by manually sifting through the most popular search terms overall to find keywords that were not associated with a brand. In addition, we also removed porn-related keywords.

For clarity, in the “official’  release of list, the top five most searched overall are “Gmail”, “Craigslist”, “Amazon”, “Yahoo”, and.. “Porn”. None of those are included on this list – because a giant list of navigational brand searches and porn isn’t interesting.

I still find it ironic that the adult content keywords, which I do not believe all are fully listed here, Google seems to try so hard to push to the side yet here alone there are at least 5 of these terms search higher the wikipedia itself. The terms are so highly rated they obviously make plenty of money for the company, so I would this that this shows what the people are asking as well as patronize. Can’t the adult industry be seen as professionals and be accepting with every other business’ SEO needs and goals, perhaps just a few baby steps at first, I feel they really do deserve this understanding.  –  Robbi Racks

# Keyword Search Volume
1 youtube 107300000
2 facebook 87350000
3 amazon 61570000
4 gmail 44660000
5 google 41120000
6 craigslist 36520000
7 ebay 34020000
8 netflix 28820000
9 yahoo mail 27350000
10 walmart 27230000
11 google maps 25280000
12 yahoo 23240000
13 facebook login 21470000
14 google translate 16800000
15 home depot 15980000
16 weather 15920000
17 maps 14460000
18 hotmail 13720000
19 translate 12800000
20 target 12570000
21 paypal 12190000
22 pornhub 12150000
23 usps tracking 11950000
24 lowes 11710000
25 best buy 11650000
26 google docs 11440000
27 pinterest 11160000
28 pandora 11120000
29 calculator 10430000
30 youtube to mp3 10350000
31 bank of america 10240000
32 wells fargo 10210000
33 google drive 10030000
34 mapquest 8880000
35 cnn 8840000
36 google classroom 8610000
37 twitter 8520000
38 zillow 8510000
39 linkedin 8480000
40 instagram 8170000
41 speed test 7970000
42 capital one 7210000
43 espn 7140000
44 xnxx 7120000
45 pizza hut 6840000
46 you tube 6790000
47 costco 6780000
48 ups tracking 6760000
49 usps 6700000
50 indeed 6490000
51 xvideos 6380000
52 fox news 6280000
53 chase 6150000
54 msn 6130000
55 kohls 6090000
56 verizon 6090000
57 amazon prime 5900000
58 dominos 5900000
59 news 5810000
60 porn 5770000
61 roblox 5660000
62 american airlines 5620000
63 gamestop 5390000
64 steam 5220000
65 donald trump 5120000
66 hulu 5080000
67 macys 5070000
68 expedia 5060000
69 etsy 4990000
70 spotify 4980000
71 turbotax 4930000
72 dropbox 4900000
73 aol mail 4870000
74 papa johns 4820000
75 you 4750000
76 bed bath and beyond 4740000
77 reddit 4630000
78 powerball 4530000
79 groupon 4510000
80 olympics 4480000
81 walgreens 4470000
82 southwest 4440000
83 thesaurus 4400000
84 autozone 4310000
85 fedex tracking 4300000
86 minecraft 4300000
87 imdb 4290000
88 comcast 4270000
89 jcpenney 4260000
90 bing 4180000
91 xhamster 4140000
92 credit karma 4140000
93 sears 4100000
94 traductor 4080000
95 soundcloud 4040000
96 nfl 4000000
97 itunes 4000000
98 piratebay 3950000
99 pirate bay 3930000
100 wikipedia 3820000

Thank you to SEMrush and siegemedia!