How to talk to a Transgender Person

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How to talk to a Transgender Person


How do I talk to a transgender person?  or Trans Persons

Learn to properly communication with transgender persons from my infographic


How do I communicate with a Transgender Person?  Pushing politically correct to the side, by Robbi Racks.  A infographic that is easy to follow and understand, but as a transgender person, the information you can learn here is very dear to our hearts and person growth.  Speak from the heart. hear from the heart and we’ll all be fine.


How to talk to a Transgender Person

Pushing Politically Correct  to the Side

By TS Robbi Racks


Some transgender statistics:

LGBTQ Population – 2017

Because most people do know know or understand the who, what and why’s of transgender, as with many unknowns, we have a fear.  If not acknowledged this fear often shows up as discrimination, anger and pre-judgement against any group of people, in this case societies fears are against us transgender people.

Due to this many persons that are transgender do not talk to anyone about it nor do they feel safe answering the United States Census questions fully, thus, LGBTQ (Transgender) census reports are more then often, estimated.  The numbers I use in this infographic are presented from reports and my own experience as a transgender female.


What do I call a transgender person?

Remember being a kid and asking for permission?  Then that adrenaline rush when you were told yes?  Having that permission gave you a sense of being, and that is the gift we all give each other when we simply ASK, “how would you like me to address you?” or  “what should I call you?”

Please understand when we ask this seemingly simple question AND we then honor the individuals personal choice, we give that person the gift of being themselves.  This is the number one gift you could ever give any transgender person.

How to address a transgender person respectfully:

The use of pronouns when speaking to the person or speaking of the person.

Masculine words: boy he him his

Feminine words: girl she her hers

Gender Neutral words: they them their theirs



What is the most common trans-related verbal communication mistake we hear?

Answer:  pronouns – The use of these words; he, his, him, guy, dude.

Even after a person has accepted and supports my gender transition, as well as some of my closer friends, they will continue to use masculine pronouns when speaking of myself or other trans persons.

Whats the difference between transgender- transsexual-and shemale?

Many transgender people find a whole list of words degrading or to be an insult to them personally.  One such word is”SHEMALE.”

Shemale = bad                                                          Transgender = good

Transsexual = bad                                                                Trans = politically correct

“Shemale” is believed to be used to describe a transgender porno actress, this too can be said about how many feel the about the word transsexual.

More acceptable, currently, with us trans-folks is transgender and even more acceptable is the politically correct term, Trans.

Personally, part of my self discovery was from seeing photos of M2F transsexuals on the internet.  On the internet these beautiful girls were called shemales, and a identity I felt I identified with.   So  after waited a long time to be where I am and now, I’m damn proud to be a Transgender Shemale Transsexual  adult porn Trans actress!

The world will be a much better place when we stop  listening to just the vibrations carried in our breaths that we call words, and we actually hear each others hearts and the intention of what the person is truly trying to say.  You have to understand that in communication, accidents happen.

For me I live by the simple code, I will always treat others as I would like to be treated by them.



What does F2M mean?

Answer: a female to male transgender person.

What does M2F mean?

Answer: a male to female transgender person.

The solution to how to address a transgender person is this, Just Ask Us.   Yes, it’s really that easy.




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If you gained some new transgender communication skill or understanding, please comment or feel free to share this infographic on your own website.   – Robbi Racks TS

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Transgender Pronouns and Communication

Trans terms, pronouns and communication. Buck Angel and other put this video post out on Youtube through Buzzfeed Boldly, it speaks from the heart of so many tran identified people.  I re-posted this video because I believe in what is said here, listen, learn, implement.

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Date A Tranny

Tips for dating a Shemale Escort in Las Vegas

 Shemale Escort in Las Vegas

Date a Tranny or Date a Shemale is about finding and having a safe Las Vegas escort experience.  Getting an escort is easier than you think.  However, finding a escort online, a TS escort, and a good one at that, can be both a risky and dangerous.  You need to know some escort lingo, where to keep your money, and how long to stay with her.  Luckily, it is very easy to learn how to find the best escort available, for almost any price you are willing to pay.

=== Date a ShemaleFinding an Escort ===

Find a reputable escort directory site.  These will have many escort ads for you to search through. You can tell you are on a good site if the majority of the ads there are posted monthly, a great example is the Eros Guide, or Las Vegas Eros Transsexual Escorts

Questionable transgender dating websites like Backpages Las Vegas has a mix from great to no way.  Vegas Backpage runs daily transsexual escorts ads where tgirls post ads at, daily instead of monthly.  Backpages Las Vegas ads are very cheap to run which tends to attracts lower class independent escorts. CL Criagslist is a local meat market that is far to risky for me to ever recommend.

Las Vegas Escort Agencies can be nice because you can expect a certain level of consistency from the escorts. If you find an agency that you like, then the booker can make recommendations to you according to your taste.  The downside to agencies is that you will have to pay a bit more because you will pay a large agency fee which is rolled into the price.  Remember thought escort agencies have a number of hidden fees, commonly the fee you are quoted is only for the transsexual escort to only come to your room.

Decide on a budget. Keep in mind that you get what you pay for.  Make sure she is the girl in the photo.  Escorts who use fake photos will never tell you that it is not really them. Many girls using fake pics will blur out their face, but many beautiful escorts using real photos will blur their face as well for privacy reasons.  Other clients will leave comments about her and let you know if she is the girl in the photo.

Google her stage name.  This will allow you to see how long she has been working in the industry, and how she has been rated by clients.  If she has only been doing this for a few weeks or months then you are taking a higher risk. Google her contact phone number and email to see if they are real, and legitimate as well. There are plenty of review sites online which rate escorts on appearance, personality, and openness.  Some great review sites include TER, and

Figure out the in-call location she will provide for you. A cheap motel in a bad neighborhood may not be a great idea.  Make sure the parking lot is not visible from the street if you are close to your home or office.  A ounce of preparing will bring you a favorable date.